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As part of our training, we tend to use a lot of ‘triad’ sessions. One person is the client, a second is the helper and the third is the observer. The roles are rotated during a session so that each person takes part in the three roles.
Initially, observation can be quite hard, but progressively more and more details come to attention. Here are some key aspects an observer might look for during such a session:
- Application of Coaching Techniques: The observer assesses how well the trainee applies coaching techniques such as active listening, powerful questioning, and goal-setting. It’s important to see how these techniques are integrated into the session to facilitate the client’s self-awareness and growth (Stober & Grant, 2006).
- Adherence to a Coaching Structure: Observing whether the trainee follows a structured approach to the session, which includes setting an agenda, maintaining focus on the client’s goals, and ensuring a clear closure, is crucial. This structure is vital for effective coaching outcomes (Rogers, 2012).
- Handling of Feedback: The observer looks at how the trainee gives and receives feedback. Effective feedback is crucial for helping clients progress towards their goals and for the trainee’s own improvement (Williams & Davis, 2007).
- Emotional Intelligence: The observer evaluates the trainee’s emotional intelligence, particularly their ability to manage personal emotions and understand the emotions of others. This capability is fundamental in creating a safe, supportive, and empathetic coaching environment (Green, Oades, & Grant, 2006).
- Ethical Conduct: Ensuring that the trainee adheres to ethical guidelines set by relevant coaching bodies is essential. This includes maintaining confidentiality, avoiding conflicts of interest, and respecting the client’s autonomy (Passmore & Fillery-Travis, 2011).
- Use of Self-Awareness in Coaching: Observers should look for evidence of self-awareness in trainees. This includes how well trainees understand their own biases and how these might affect their coaching practice. A good coach should be aware of their own limitations and how their experiences influence their coaching style (Kauffman & Scoular, 2004).
- Client Engagement: Observing the client’s engagement can provide indirect feedback on the trainee’s effectiveness. A client who is actively participating and demonstrating positive changes is often a sign of effective coaching (Whitworth, Kimsey-House, & Sandahl, 2007).
- Flexibility and Adaptability: The ability to adapt coaching techniques to suit different clients and situations is a valuable skill for a coach. Observers should note how well trainees adjust their approach based on the client’s reactions and feedback during the session (Prochaska & DiClemente, 1983).
These observations help in providing constructive feedback to the trainee, aiding in their development as effective coaches.
References
- Green, S., Oades, L. G., & Grant, A. M. (2006). Coaching psychology manual. Philadelphia, PA: Lippincott Williams & Wilkins.
- Kauffman, C., & Scoular, A. (2004). Toward a positive psychology of executive coaching. In P. A. Linley & S. Joseph (Eds.), Positive psychology in practice (pp. 287-302). Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons.
- Passmore, J., & Fillery-Travis, A. (2011). A critical review of executive coaching research: a decade of progress and what’s to come. Coaching: An International Journal of Theory, Research and Practice, 4(2), 70-88.
- Prochaska, J. O., & DiClemente, C. C. (1983). Stages and processes of self-change of smoking: toward an integrative model of change. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 51(3), 390-395.
- Rogers, J. (2012). Coaching skills: A handbook. Maidenhead, UK: Open University Press.
- Stober, D. R., & Grant, A. M. (Eds.). (2006). Evidence based coaching handbook: Putting best practices to work for your clients. Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons.
- Whitworth, L., Kimsey-House, H., & Sandahl, P. (2007). Co-active coaching: New skills for coaching people toward success in work and life. Palo Alto, CA: Davies-Black Publishing.
- Williams, P., & Davis, D. C. (2007). Therapist as life coach: Transforming your practice. New York, NY: W. W. Norton & Company.
[Written and illustrated with the help of Scholar GPT and Dall-E.]